How many programs you have done.

How many certifications you have.

What size stages you have spoken on.

Or how many television shows, publications, documentaries, or affiliations you have….

When it comes to coaching the most important thing is:

How evolved are you to guide the process?

As a coach, you are sharing your consciousness with those you are guiding.

I have heard so many stories of clients in the coaching industry being misguided, shamed, or misdirected because a coach was sharing “their opinion” with them.

If there is anything I have learned from EFT Tapping it’s that as a coach it is not about our opinion.

It is about giving space to our clients to feel and process that which is unresolved.

When we do that, naturally our clients find the wisdom that best supports their life.

Trying to force our opinion on someone is not the way to create positive change.

When you bring EFT Tapping into your work, you discover how to listen more and encourage your clients to discover their own unique truths.

Give this a try instead…. next time you are supporting a client or friend through a difficult situation.

Try having them bring love to the struggle, instead of telling them what you think.

Have them feel their struggle, hold it in love and compassion, and imagine that their higher self is sitting there with them.

Perhaps their high self has a message for them.

Ask them to tell you what the message is and then repeat it out loud.

So often our leadership style as coaches will reflect the leadership style that our parents imprinted on us, as they were the first leaders we followed.

This is unconscious so much of the time.

It takes courage to reflect on our leadership style and to ask ourselves if this is really serving the highest good for our clients and loved ones.

When we do, we will continue to grow as a coach and our clients will reap the benefits.

The greatest level of leadership I know is in holding space for those we are guiding to discover their own unique truth through our love and presence.

If you are practicing Tapping with clients or the people in your life, you may want to try one of my Tapping Scripts for coaches to get you started.

Click the link below to download my Tapping Script to support yourself or others in finding clarity in their struggle.