TRANSCEND YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS
Life coach, EFT / Tapping expert, yogi & wellness activist with a wild heart dedicated to support you in living the life of your dreams.
On a synchronistic trip to India, I discovered the love of my life…
Well two loves that is….
The first one was me! (I am quite the catch!!) And the second…. was my beloved.
7 years later….
We have lived many lives, from yogis meditating on distant shores,
to creating two homes together, living in various locations, traveling,
growing our businesses, and deepening in what we call love yoga.
Then 2 years ago….
HE PROPOSED TO ME! Woohooo!! Blast off! BAM!!!
Still no marriage…. WTF?!?
It has made me laugh, and occasionally hide with embarrassment as old cultural wiring gets triggered…. By the offhand friend that says;
“So, when are you getting married?”
My old patriarchal belief tells me I should be a married woman, have children, a white picket fence and if that’s not happening;
There must be something wrong with the relationship… Or worse, something wrong with ME!
Neither are the case…
Although, if we rewind back to the 1950’s, I may have believed this to be so.
Woman were shamed, frightened and desperate for a husband.
Woman were disempowered, they could not work, vote, ignite their creative potential, or financially take care of themselves…. That was the role of the man!
Good house wifey was all that was required. Make sure you have a pretty apron.
I see the old way fading fast… The definition of marriage and relationship is changing.
Each couple gets to decide what the new paradigm means…
With or without a label.
Monogamous, Polyamorous, Open, Long-Distance, Casual, Friends With Benefits, Asexual, Polyfidelity, Friendship, Romantic Friendship, Polyandry, Polygyny, Relationship Anarchy…. And these are just some of the labels…
There are no longer any rules, we create the rules. ROOOAAAARRRR!!!!
And if you are courageous enough, perhaps you may even voice what you truly want, rather than what the old system tells you it should be.
Soooo that is where we have landed…
I love this man more than I ever have, and I believe it’s because we are determined to make our own rules and live by a deeper truth.
For us, it’s not about jumping into an old system, it’s about studying who we are, what we want deeply as a soul and how we can encourage the other to have all their dreams met.
…. even if it’s not our dream…… can we encourage them to live theirs?
We are here on the planet for a bleep, for me… it’s about being empowered and if you find someone/s that enhances that in you, then yes, dive in…
If you want to transcend your current relationship status, release any drama and discover a deeper love, then give this Tapping session a go.